PowerShift Devotional Series |Dayo Adeyemi.
These days, many babes no longer believes “‘til death do us part,” but “‘the cash do us right.” A guy was paying the school fees of her undergraduate babes while she was dating another guy same time. After graduation, she finds her levels and left the guy wailing after leaving him to marry another dude.
Relationship now seems to be a cash-out game. This devotional isn’t a hit piece on women. It’s a wake-up call to you guys, the future husbands. To you. To think. To pray. To observe. To watch. And to discern in a world where affection is on auction and love is on lease. A wrong babe makes a guy\'s life a foolish trip.
Many young men are trapped in ‘SITUATIONSHIPS’ not relationship. She\'s still holding on to her current relationship using you as bestie. She is for you as long as you meet her needs. Affection is on auction. Never forget, other bidders exist. Babes are on rampage. Hope, you are not the highest bidders.
Sir, if you are not wise, you will be wounded in love. We seem now to be in a culture where affection is on auction and love is transactional. Girls are on rampage to rustle a guy\'s love.
Foresee ahead. “A prudent man sees danger and takes refuge, but the simple keep going and suffer for it.” — Proverbs 27:12 If she ‘loves’ you when you are spending on her, she’s not loving you, she is leasing you. She might not be yours. You might just be her bestie with benefits.
Dating today seems to have become a subscription plan. Relationships now come with an invoice. Hi, babe becomes her opportunity to milk you. You’re now her employer picking up her bills to service her life. Young man, stop bidding for what God never sent. Don’t compete in a relationship economy where your value is measured by how much you spend. Ask yourself: is she bringing peace or pressure? Is she a partner or a project? Many relationships are fx market today. Some ladies wait it out in quiet calculation. Once they finished milking you, they exit. You’ve been scammed.
Don’t be driven by lust. Be guided by the Lord.
Today, character is no longer trending. Young women are being told to monetize everything, from selfies to sob stories. She may not be on OnlyFans only, but she understands that beauty can be monetized. Even the village girl is now on TikTok looking for who to pay her bills. BIGO Live streams is her virtual store. “Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes...” — Proverbs 6:25–26.
Relationships with guys now seem to be ‘a cash out game on men’. Bro, love is no longer blind. It’s being billed! And many babes\' do cash out using gullible guys. Future husbands, stop funding fantasy and bankrupt your purpose.
Let me balance this.
There are good babes. Honestly. God-fearing. Loyal. Builders. They exist. They are there. Valuable girls. Her values stand her out. Not her followers. Not her selfies. By her values we shall choose her. Not by her looks alone.
The Bible says “He who finds a wife finds” (Pro 18:22) not he who falls in love. Hi, that scripture says “finds,” not “falls.” Stop falling in love, brother. Falling is accidental. Finding is strategic. Be strategic in love. Let your discernment be higher than your desire. My guys, use your eyes, your heart, and your spirit to find the right wife materials. The Bible is clear. \'He who finds a wife not he who funds a girlfriend\' obtains favor from the Lord.
Don’t just seek love. Seek purpose. Women rush men who accomplish their life purpose. Girls use guys who lack wisdom. Future husband, wise up. Don’t just fall in love. Love carefully. Delilah still exists in the kingdom.
PowerShift Devotional Series |Dayo Adeyemi.These days, many babes no longer believes “‘til death do us part,” but “‘the cash do us right.” A guy was paying the school fees of her undergraduate babes while she was dating another guy same time. After graduation, she finds her levels and left the guy wailing after leaving him to marry another dude.
Relationship now seems to be a cash-out game. This devotional isn’t a hit piece on women. It’s a wake-up call to you guys, the future husbands. To you. To think. To pray. To observe. To watch. And to discern in a world where affection is on auction and love is on lease. A wrong babe makes a guy\'s life a foolish trip.
Many young men are trapped in ‘SITUATIONSHIPS’ not relationship. She\'s still holding on to her current relationship using you as bestie. She is for you as long as you meet her needs. Affection is on auction. Never forget, other bidders exist. Babes are on rampage. Hope, you are not the highest bidders.
Sir, if you are not wise, you will be wounded in love. We seem now to be in a culture where affection is on auction and love is transactional. Girls are on rampage to rustle a guy\'s love.
Foresee ahead. “A prudent man sees danger and takes refuge, but the simple keep going and suffer for it.” — Proverbs 27:12 If she ‘loves’ you when you are spending on her, she’s not loving you, she is leasing you. She might not be yours. You might just be her bestie with benefits.
Dating today seems to have become a subscription plan. Relationships now come with an invoice. Hi, babe becomes her opportunity to milk you. You’re now her employer picking up her bills to service her life. Young man, stop bidding for what God never sent. Don’t compete in a relationship economy where your value is measured by how much you spend. Ask yourself: is she bringing peace or pressure? Is she a partner or a project? Many relationships are fx market today. Some ladies wait it out in quiet calculation. Once they finished milking you, they exit. You’ve been scammed.
Don’t be driven by lust. Be guided by the Lord.
Today, character is no longer trending. Young women are being told to monetize everything, from selfies to sob stories. She may not be on OnlyFans only, but she understands that beauty can be monetized. Even the village girl is now on TikTok looking for who to pay her bills. BIGO Live streams is her virtual store. “Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes...” — Proverbs 6:25–26.
Relationships with guys now seem to be ‘a cash out game on men’. Bro, love is no longer blind. It’s being billed! And many babes\' do cash out using gullible guys. Future husbands, stop funding fantasy and bankrupt your purpose.
Let me balance this.
There are good babes. Honestly. God-fearing. Loyal. Builders. They exist. They are there. Valuable girls. Her values stand her out. Not her followers. Not her selfies. By her values we shall choose her. Not by her looks alone.
The Bible says “He who finds a wife finds” (Pro 18:22) not he who falls in love. Hi, that scripture says “finds,” not “falls.” Stop falling in love, brother. Falling is accidental. Finding is strategic. Be strategic in love. Let your discernment be higher than your desire. My guys, use your eyes, your heart, and your spirit to find the right wife materials. The Bible is clear. \'He who finds a wife not he who funds a girlfriend\' obtains favor from the Lord.
Don’t just seek love. Seek purpose. Women rush men who accomplish their life purpose. Girls use guys who lack wisdom. Future husband, wise up. Don’t just fall in love. Love carefully. Delilah still exists in the kingdom.
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