Have you heard about Twink?
HAVE YOU HEARD ABOUT THE TWINK? Your Son may be at risk.
Your teenage son may be in the twink trade or do you think it’s impossible? Twink is not crypto nor forex trade. Our sons are being traded on twink and you need to be aware. Twink isn’t just a Western term. It’s a digital bait luring African boys into a sex trade.
Never ignore this. Don’t mute this. Send to school principals and PTA platforms. Your son and their students may be involved in ‘Twink’.
As part of my learning process to understand how teenage boys are sexually endangered, I discovered a dark and disturbing reality. There is a huge underground African Teens Twink Market and its growing web of platforms.
Twink is where boys usually between 15 to 19 send their masturbation videos to earn money. Your son with a smartphone and Vaseline right under your roof may be ‘twink’ and thou knowest not. It is a world of digital sexual exploitation of the boy child. Sometimes willingly. Often through coercion. Always dangerously.
The Bible is good enough, but it is no longer sufficient to remain naive. Parents must act with knowledge and strategic action. Schools must pair teaching with highly informed teachers. Having Boy\'s Responder Specialists and trained Christian Male Counselors help you uncover what to do to safeguard the destinies of the boy child is the way to go.
Don\'t just think, as a father or a mother, that your son cannot outwit you with all the Christian values you imparted. Many of our teenage boys are smart, tech-savvy, and can live a double life between who they are at home and who are online. Trust me, I have over a decade in the boys’ child space to know our sons are smarter and the devil is on rampage to take down your seed. I was a former school Principal and boys outwit their teachers in tech than we care to admit.
When sons get trapped , their greatest fear is whether others will find out. So they go underground. This underground world thrives on secrecy, shame, silence and potential suicide. And the truth is brutal. The internet never forgets. The internet does not respect your Christian values or your being born again. Years later, long after he has given his life to Christ, built a family, and perhaps become a pastor or a professional, his twink content can resurface. The internet has a notorious memory. The potential scandal. The marital shame. The church disgrace. The torment. Some young never recover. This is how \"Silent Suicide Syndrome\" creeps in. Young men, seemingly happy and successful, suddenly end their lives not because they lack faith, but because of buried shame and unresolved sexual pasts that resurface in their future.
Daddy and mummy, Get knowledge. Get understanding. \"Wisdom may be principal thing, but knowledge also is power and understanding is key.\" Partner with us. With over a decade of experience raising boys to become men God can be proud of, The Catalyst Men Network International is ready to serve you, your churches, your school leadership, and your family.
In over a decade of ministering to men and the boy child, I\'ve seen a dangerous pattern. When something goes wrong with a daughter, most mothers and fathers spring into action. But when boys show signs of trouble, most fathers wait. Dismiss. Downplay. Ignore. Denies. By the time a crisis happens (an arrest, addiction, or suicide) many fathers are caught flat-footed. Many fathers reading this become dismissive of information like this and remain muted and in denial. Like most issues of life, mothers act when there is a problem, major or minor. Fathers\' wait until there is a crisis. By then, it is almost too late to turn his son around. In my over a decade of founding The Catalyst Men Network International, women and mothers respond more to the issues of the boy child more than men. Why? Many men believe it is not an issue at all. There is a tactical ignoring processes men activate to suppress potential challenges their sons face. Most Christian mothers act when there is a whisper. Many fathers wait till there is a major crisis.
To everyone who has read up to this point, if you respond swiftly to your daughter\'s misbehavior, why hesitate when your son begins to act strange? Don\'t outsource. Many homes outsource the hard emotional conversations to the mothers or to church or the school. They outsource discipline, trade discipleship and delay mentoring until their son’s habits are fully formed. But let me be plain with you. God gave you that boy for His own purpose. You are God\'s appointed gatekeeper over your son. The direct responsibility of accountability over your son to God is you. You can’t outsource this. This is your territory. Rise more to defend your son’s destiny.
Sir, boys will be boys unless men like you rise to raise boys to become the man after God’s heart. Do you have the skills to raise the 21st Century boy child or you are experimenting also?
When it comes to raising sons great, google may not be an option. When fathers, churches, schools, and Christian communities outsource teenage boys life to the screen or Sunday School teachers or the Youth Pastor, the message is clear, “boy, you\'re on your own.\" But boys are not meant to be left alone. They need guidance, correction, affirmation, education, and spiritual protection. Raise sons who are greater than you in a world far darker than the one you grew up in.
I honestly think we need to declare a STATE OF EMERGENCY regarding our boys and sons. The struggles of the boy child are real. Their sexual vulnerability is underreported. Their pain is often ignored. The fathers, husbands, future husbands, lovers to your daughter and leaders of tomorrow are under siege and society seems not to truly care. Go to rehabilitation centers and see the wastage of the boys lives.
The urgency with which society addresses the issues the girl child faces must now be equally applied to support the boy child. Why? Your daughter and the unprepared son will live in the same future.
Parents, educate your son (and even daughters), “you may think twink is trend. But never forget, the internet never forgets. One leaked video can ruin your entire future”. That one chat, one photo, one post can come back when you\'re are married or a CEO or even when you\'re raising your own son. Twink may pay now, but it will cost you much more later. Don\'t gamble your destiny for temporary pleasure and quick cash. If you\'re already involved, get help. Now.
Pastors. Mothers. Elders. Men’s ministries. Youth departments. Schools. Chaplains. Discipline Masters. Do not assume because they’re in uniforms and chapels that they are protected. The internet has no uniforms. It is filled with wolves in sheep’s clothing. Don’t be too late to act.
Hope is here. At The Catalyst Men Network International, we have trained professionals who specialize in male development, sexual wholeness, trauma healing, and destiny restoration. We do not shame. We shepherd. We are not preachers. We are partners to jointly parent your son to a life of success.
We offer:
- Male Specific Christian Training, Counseling and Intentional Mentoring.
- Digital classes and Online support sessions.
- Church/School/Correctional Centres partnership programs.
- School mentorship modules.
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Talk to us at Catalyst Men Network.
We are raised by God for over a decade for such a time as this. The future of your son depends on what you do now. Visit www.catalystmen.org today.
Wake up. Rise up. Act now.
My name is Dayo Adeyemi – I live that a man will live to tell a better story – a story of victory in Christ Jesus.